When someone around you is in rage you have to tread carefully,and treading carefully makes you vulnerable, and this vulnerability makes you angry. But it's not like that when you're in love. When you're in love you don't get angry. You just feel bad for your lover,and you want to know what it is about that is causing the rage, and you listen, because your heart prompts you to. You put aside anything that is troubling you, because in that moment all you think is, I want him/her to feel better. Some of us forget that, and we get angry anyway, even if we don't mean to. But it doesn't mean you are not in love, it just means that you let your vulnerability consume you.